It costs nothing to be kind. Or so they say. I disagree. Some days it can cost a great deal. Maybe you're having a bad day. Maybe you spilled your coffee. Which is horrible in two ways, first, you made a mess, second, you no longer have coffee.
Or maybe someone cut you off in traffic. Things like this can make you want to head for the nearest liquor store and start grabbing bottles of the shelf. Or maybe that's just me. Whatever the circumstances are, you are in a pisser of a mood and you are dying to take it out on the first unlucky idjit that crosses your path. I mean, people, what a bunch of bastards. People can be kind or they can be cruel. Some days I think it takes a lot more effort to be kind. Especially when you just aren't feeling it. No one has been kind to you, why should you bother being kind to anyone else? Because you need to be. I work an IT Help Desk. I've been in Customer Service of one sort or another since my first job at 16 at a local restaurant. I think everyone should have to work some sort of customer service gig in their life so they know how it feels. When you have someone look you in the face and tell you that you suck, it gives you an appreciation for people who are kind. So be kind. Even though it costs you. Spread that shit around. The internet seems to have given license to the darkness in humanity. People can anonymously spread around cruelty that is so audacious, it's breathtaking.
"You can't fix yourself by breaking someone else." ~Unknown
No, you can't. And even though it may cost you, be kind anyway. If we all took a minute and tried to live our lives by the Golden Rule, think how much nicer a world this would be.
Don't mean to lecture. Just trying to spread a little Peace and Harmony into the universe. Love and Light my friends.